Balik Kampung

Minggu lepas akak balik kampung hubby kesayangan akak. Dah dekat 2 bulan tak balik, mak mertua dah sibuk talipon rindu nak nengok cucu. Jumaat pagi terus kami bertolak . Nasib baik le jalan clear, tak jam langsung. Sampai aje Kak Intan singgah salon, cuci rambut & urut kepala + bahu skali. Murah gile cuci & urut. nak tau brape utk 1 jam ? RM11.00 je. Kalau kat KL, mau le terbang 50 - 60 hengget duit akak. Apa-apapun migraine akak dan lenguh-lenguh badan hilang. Best !! Sampai tertidur akak dibuatnya. Sampai umah mak mertua, perut dah berbunyi.. husband akak lak , kalau nak balik kampung tak mau nya dia singgah makan kat memana. nak balik makan masakan mak bonda nye jugak. Apa-apapun masakan ibu le bagi akak yang paling sedap didunia. Pegi le makan kat mana-mana pun dalam dunia ni, kalau balik kampung mesti nak makan masakan yg ibu kita masak kan.

Kalau nak tahu, kat kampung husband akak ni dikelilingi macam-macam jenis pokok yg menhijau. Ceewah.. kalau setakat nak makan sayur kampung, tak yah pegi pasar. Turun kat laman.. cross jambatan kat atas ni.. macam-macam ulam, sayur kampung dan pokok buah-buahan (yg ni ikut musim le ye). Yang pasti udara nyaman dan segar bugar. Itu le sebabnya kalau akak balik kampung, keje nak membongkang aje.. sejukk & jauh dari hiruk pikuk bunyi kereta. Yang kedengaran.. bunyi unggas-unggas berterbangan aje .. Chewwah.

On the way..., pucat kan muka Kak Intan..

Anak buah akak yang super tembam, baru 2 bulan tu. Que nama nya tapi bukan Que Haidar ye!

2 hari kat sana, tak pegi mana-mana pun. Aktiviti Kak Intan, makan, tidur, makan, tidur... dan makan lagii . Pagi Ahad bertolak balik KL. Singgah kat YIK MUN kat Tanjung Malim jap, Aqil & Alya kelaparan, nak makan nasik. Bapaknya lak nak makan pau yg femes tu. Akak lak nak makan Yong Tau Foo yg sedap hingga menjilat jari tu.

Cik abang punya pau & kopi kaw

Yong Tau Foo, tapi nampak tak menarik kan! Akak kalau makan yong tau foo, akak tak suka rendam dalam sup. Sup akak asingkan dan hirup aje...

Aqil tengah makan nasi goreng Hainan special. Sedap sungguh nasik goreng ni, lauk pun banyak dia letak.

Kak Intan dapat cucu

Yeeyy.. CUMI dah selamat beranak. 4 ekor baby kuar semalam kul 7.15 pm. Cian dia, macam kekok aje.. almaklumlah first time giving birth :) Apa-apapun kami semua happy sangat. 3 colour gold & 1 lagi hitam putih. Brape banyak bapak le utk anak-anak tu. Ish Iish. Alya & Aqil sibuk nak kasik nama kat baby tu, Aqil as usual le, semua nama pemain Machester United dia nak kasi kat baby tu. Nak negok tak cucu baru akak tak? Gambar ni akak ambik masa nak gi keje pagi tadi, macam anak tikus kan! Alya sampai melompat-lompat geli nengok kaki baby kucing tu. Tak sabar nak balik nengok baby ni. Tapi takut lak sebab dulo-dulo masa akak kecik selalu nengok bapak kuching makan anak kuching. Nanti habis lak 4 ekor tu kenal bedal kat bapak nya. Orang sekarang pun apa kurangnya yek, berani buntingkan anak orang... dah beranak.. buang anak sana sini. Ish Ish tak berperikemanusiaan langsung..

MARRIAGE

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story...

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Jalan-jalan

Sabtu lepas Min bertandang kat umah Kak Intan setelah sekian lama tak menjejakkan kaki kat umah kak Intan. Maklum le orang sibuk dengan keje masak-memasak, tak ada masa nak jalan-jalan. Walaupun...


Kak Intan lak tak masak hari tu coz sibuk jadi cikgu.. maklumlah hari Isnin dah start exam PSKR 1 jadi nak le mengajor sket anak-anak Kak Intan. Perut dah lapar & Min nak belikan buku kat anak teruna nye. Apa lagi kami pun memecut ke IOI Mall. Sampai terus ke McD makan, dah kenyang, jalan.. jalan... singgah sana singgah sini. tot tot tengok jam dah dekat 7 malam u ols. Bayangkan dari kul 1.30 petang kami jalan-jalan. Ish.. ish kat KL ni kalau dah masuk shopping complex sampai dah tak tahu apa jadi kat luar, hujan ke ribut ke..

Sebelum balik kita orang jalan-jalan kat Level 2, ada restoran Little Taiwan, halal ke? Pegi tanya waiter-waiter kat situ, dia orang tunjuk tanda halal kat luar ngan gambar Maria Tengku Sabri jadi spoke person. Jom kita try makan kat sini lak. Apa yg kita orang makan.. layannn gambar aje le..

GLEE

Muka kepenatan

Min - senyum melirik.. jgn ada yang jatuh hati lak. Taken already!

Anak bujang Min

Slurpp.. slurpp Strawberry Shake

Toast with Garlic Bread ni sedap bangat!

Yang ni kureeng sket, tapi sebab dah order, kita makan aje

Besar gilee ayam goreng ni , tapi ni kat tempat lain le..

Balik terus pengsan kepenatan. :)

Kepanasan Global

Macamana cuaca kat tempat u ols? , kat mana-mana pun sekarang akak rasa cuaca tersangat le panas nye. masa balik Kelantan hari tu... panas tak hengat... Selalunya kalau akak balik kampung memang bercinta nak mandi.. sebab apa? Sebab air dalam kolah kau kampung macam air batu aje. So mandi pagi selalunya pukul 10 - 11 pagi aje. Tapi masa balik hari tu.. 80 kali nak mandi . Lepas mandi aje tik tok tik tok peluh menitik, akak rasa macam nak demam dan asyik je migraine (ni penyakit orang moden ni). Last-last hari Ahad akak cabut balik KL, spatutnya hari Isnin baru nak bertolak. Mak bonda sedih le tapi akak pandai le nak memujuk hatinya. Balik KL terus deman.. kat KL pun sekarang panas gak. Tapi tu baru panas kat dunia yek.. kat akhirat esok-esok tak leh kite bayangkan ye kepanasan macam mana!!

Apa-apa pun, musim-musim panas gini elok kita beriadah dengan keluarga pegi mandi-manda kat mana-mana air terjun. Sejuk mata & sejuk hati gitu. Meh kita layan gambar Kak Intan mandi manda kat Air Terjun Sg. Tua. Layannn...

Nyaman ...

MenGiggiL!!!

Alya dengan best friend nye Shasha

Aqil ngan cousin- Shawal

Mmm sedapnya nasi lemak, jom makan!

"Peace No War"

Sejukkkk!!!

Migraine

Kak Intan migraine le lately.. nanti sihat K. Intan post entry baru ye. Sebagai pengubat rindu.. hanya gambar pengubat rindu he he he :)

AF8

You all minat tak nengok AF8. Dolu-dolu K. Intan cukup suka nengok Akademi Fantasia ni.. zaman Vince, Zahid & Mawi si Raja SMS tu. Sekarang kureeng sket. Kalau ada masa K. Intan nengok gak. Macam tak ada kick le AF sekarang.

Kalau di beri kuasa veto utk memilih juara AF8 ni, sapa yang u ols rasa boleh jadi juara. Kalau K. Intan le.. akak suka 2 orang aje. Sorang hero & sorang heroin, yang lain tu boleh balik umah bungkus nasi lemak. Yang confirmed jadi juara mestilah Adira. Suara sedap ala-ala penyanyi Indonesia, rupa lawa, pakej lengkap le utk jadi penyanyi.

No 2, Kak Intan suka Ya Maulana, walaupun rupe kureng (tapi kalau dipolish, handsome gak kot), suara jantan habis, lenggang lenggok nyanyi pun ada. Kalau dah jadi penyanyi, ada duit akak nak suruh dia pegi dentist, rapat kan gigi kat depan tu. OK gak.

Apa-apapun kita nengok le keputusannya nanti yek.

Ini bukan Adira & Maulana ye..

Orchid

Mak bonda dah nak balik kampung next week. Sedih gak, coz dah dekat sebulan dia kat sini. Tapi orang tua, bukan nya lama nak duduk kat rumah anak-anak. Ada-ada aje reason dia nak suruh kita hantar dia balik. Tak pe le, mungkin dia dah rindu kat kampung halaman, bunga orkid dan kawan-kawan kat sana agaknya.

Mak bonda sedang syok memilih bunga orkid

Tengah panas terik ni !! Pijor bijik mata K. Intan

Jumaat ni akak akan bertolak balik ke Kelantan. Kak Intan cuti 2 hari, Jumaat & Isnin. Anak-anak terpaksa akak PONTENG kan mereka utk 2 hari gak. Bukan selalukan, kadang-kadang.. aje. Atas permintaan Mak Bonda, Ahad lepas K. Intan bawak mak bonda pegi Pasar Tani kat Stadium Shah Alam utk beli bunga orkid.

Mak Bonda sememangnya peminat nombor 1 bunga orkid. Kat kampung, bermacam-macam jenis bunga orkid mak bonda tanam. Kalau dia tak sihat, kita bawak nengok bunga orkid.. tang tu jugak jadik sihat dan bertenaga. Yang herannya, kalau dia tanam bunga orkid mesti menjadi punya, sentiasa berbunga dan segar sokmo. Petua Mak Bonda, kalau nak bunga orkid segar dan sentiasa berbunga.. siram pokok tu dengan air beras.. pagi dan petang.. insyaalah tak kira le pokok apa-apa pun, mesti segar dan bermaya. Balik kampung ni, penuh le bonet kereta dengan pokok-pokok orkid yg mak bonda borong.

Ini diantara koleksi bunga orkid mak bonda kat kampung.. cantik tak? Minta maap ye, nama-nama bunga orkid ni K. Intan tahu yek!!

Naluri Seorang Ibu

Satu pagi dalam kereta,

Aqil : Eh kakak, knape telinga kakak macam tu.

Kakak : Diam

K Intan : Mai sini, mama nengok! (Alya datang dekat akak dengan muka pucatnya)

Kak Intan : Alya, nape telinga macam ni, tak cakap mama?

Terkejut sakan bila nengok akak, dalam lubang telinga dia penuh nanah & darah. Dah kes berat ni. Alya ni jenis penakut sket, rupa-rupanya dia dah notice 2-3 minggu dah cuma dia takut nak bagitau.

Ni gambar lepas tukar baju, mula-mula seronok le dpt pakai baju ikat kat belakang, lepas tu terus takut

Masa menunggu utk masuk dlm OT ni le, maknya nangis bagai nak rak. :(

Terus buat appointment jumpa Dr Awaluddin (ENT Specialist) kat Damansara Specialist, on Saturday , Alya kena operate to remove the ketumbuhan dlm telinga & to sedut semua yg kotor-kotor dalam telinga dia.

Pagi-pagi we all dah berkampung kat DSH, 10.00 am nak operate tapi 8.30 am dah kena ada kat hospital. Mula-mula semua okey, hingga le nurse dtg suruh tukar baju utk operation, masa ni naluri seorang ibu dah terasa sebak dah. Akak control sedih lagik, Akak bawak dia tukar baju dan coolkan dia. 9.00 am, nurse bawak wheel chair dan tolak masuk OT. Jantung akak dah semakin berdegup kencang dah, saat nurse dtg pakaikan tutup kepala dan dia kena baring kat katil.. akak dah start breakdown dah. Hubby marah gak, u kena kuat, jgn nangis nanti Alya tengok lagi le dia sedih. K. Intan try to control tapi makin sedih lak, tak prasan Alya tengok dari jauh dan terus dia lak nangis... Masa ni akak pegi peluk dia, cakap kat dia semuanya akan okey. Lama gak ber EMO ngan dia.

10.15 am : Masuk OT, akak kena masuk jap lepas kena bius dan Alya tidur, akak kuar.. nangis lagi....

11.15 am : Dah slamat dah, alhamdulillah

Lepas operation, Alya dah ok sket, tapi mata masih berkaca lagi. Cian dia

Kakak-kakak, aunty-aunty, abg-abg... Alya dah sihat dah!

Macam ni le rasanya ye, mak bonda K. Intan dulu masa menunggu akak nak bersalin anak pertama. Mesti gundah gulana dalam hati. So, kalau kita masih lagi ada mak bapak, gembirakan le hati mereka selama mereka masih ada di dunia ni.